i think it's delusional to just accept the gender life path someone else prescribed to you when you were a baby without further interrogation on your part. accepting it as anything other than a social lever is batshit crazy. there's a reason for all the vitriol aimed specifically at transwomen: they've transgressed against "manhood."

seek out different opinions. if only to sharpen your arguments, but that's not the main thing. someone else may have already solved your "problems." but this venture into the unknown is useless without an appropriately tuned critical mind. do not trust. test and verify. do not trust. test and verify.

feel kind of stupid just now realizing i could use Rabbit's search column to find specific notes and events. it did feel like there was a gap in basic Nostr functionality, but the gap was actually in my understanding, heh. #rabbit