I think my hair is approaching the point if being the longest it ever has been. This is also the first time it is somewhat of a concious decision.
For the most part i never gave a fuck about my hair, and i always hated getting it cut. It takes too long and i never like the result anyway. This is why for a long time, i just cut it down to a few milimeters myself after i got annoyed by it.
Long hair is anoying, get in your face, takes ages to dry etc. So it always was just a matter of it hitting this nuisance threshold for me to bother to sheer it all off. There was no other rhyme or reason to it, the cadance always came down to me doing this in the fall or winter, so from a thermal isolation perspective it could have been optimized.
When i got a 'real job' i bothered to go to an actual barber again, but even then i only did it when there was some reason that required me to be 'presentable'.
I dont have a 'real job', i am a Nostr hobo for how long that will last (not long depending, but thats another story). My reason for 'choosing' to keep the long hair right now is because i have 3 older brothers, and have a pretty good furture timeline at what rate i will go bald. I figured this is the last chance i have at the whole head full of hair thing, so i might as well.
Anyway, context aside, because i never cared about hair, i never took any notice. But now i do start to notice things..... women psy-opt'd society (eachother and men) into thinking they have this involved relationship with their hair. Its bullshit.
Female hairstyles are lazy and eazy as fuck by comparison. The whole routines they build around 'caring' for it are useless, the appropriate frequency of washing and conditioner use 90% of the story.
Now ofcourse you can do all sorts of things, like braids or whatever, but day to day, i can now recognize what they 'get away' with.
In order to be broadly socially acceptable as a man in reqards to your hair, you have to put in so much more upkeep.
I think this is also the basis of the whole 'husband does not recognize wife went to the hairdresser' meme....bitch there only is this marginal change and you probably spend a fortune to have it done. Meanwhile if a man has the hair you and all these other women have, you would think he is some homeless loser.
I am now convinced women just keep up this charade around hair to distract from the fact they are actually get away with low expectations. They probably believe their own bullshit, but i can see clearly now. You are all walking around like a bunch of unmaintained homeless people hair wise.
Next week in rage againt the foids: make-up - clowns in skin colored facades
