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**A Solo Parent’s Journey of Strength and Sacrifice**
On January 26, 2017, life changed forever. My husband passed away from an asthma-related cardiac arrest—just three days after I gave birth to our youngest daughter. The pain was unbearable. I had just given birth, and suddenly I was left alone with three children to raise. I didn’t know what to do. I was terrified of facing life on my own, afraid that I wouldn’t be able to give my children the future they deserved.
When my aunt recommended that I work as a domestic helper in Hong Kong, I agreed. My employer covered all the expenses, so I didn’t have to spend a single peso to go abroad. Even though my youngest was only six months old, I made the difficult decision to leave her behind so I could work and provide for my family. I knew that if I stayed in the Philippines, my income wouldn’t be enough to support my three children alone. I left with peace of mind, knowing that my mother and siblings would take good care of them.
When I first arrived in Hong Kong, not a single day passed without tears. I missed my children terribly, especially my youngest. Even though we had video calls every day, the longing never went away. But as time went by, I slowly got used to it—especially when I started earning my salary and was able to provide for their needs. The thought that my sacrifices were giving them a better life gave me strength to keep going.
Now, I have been working in Hong Kong for nine years with the same employer. I consider myself one of the many domestic helpers blessed with a kind and generous employer who treats me like family. I am also fortunate to have the freedom to visit the Philippines whenever I want, sometimes even three times a year.
My eldest, whom I left when she was six years old, is now fifteen. My second daughter, who was two years old when I left, is now eleven. And my youngest, who was only six months old when I went abroad, is now nine. Time has flown so fast. They have grown into kind, intelligent, and loving children.
Looking back, I realize how far we’ve come. From the pain of loss to the strength of rebuilding, every tear and sacrifice was worth it. Thank you, Lord, for guiding me through every step and for blessing me with children who continue to be my greatest source of strength and inspiration.
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