Somewhere around day 4-7 of retention, you will flat line - your hormones have settled and you won’t feel the pressing urge for release. Be sure to stay playful with your wife. Dabble in some erotic photos if you need the help, but do not worry - Your body will respond correctly when it is called upon. #retention

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Heading into the weekend, make a plan to get some tasks done which show you are thinking about the big picture of your family’s needs. Many moms complain that their husbands “only do what they are asked to do” - take some responsibility, think with your brain, initiate tasks without being asked, and reap the rewards. #responsibility

I had a problem with dirty talk. I would either just grunt a lot, or I’d say things that I felt in the moment but she later said it felt cheesy or porn-y. Started describing what we are doing / what is happening, or what I like about what is happening, and the response has been positive. #relationships #sex

A normal and healthy male in his 20s will be driven to have sex with multiple women. This is natural, for young men to sow their oats. Unfortunately, many today are slovenly, addicted to porn, weed, booze, compulsive masturbators, etc. 1/3 of men live in their parents basements, have no positive masculine role models, and have no female partnership to speak of. The future is bleak for the American male. The cream rises to the top and gets all the rewards and it has never been easier to stand out. #responsibility #sex

International Business Times

1 in 3 American Men Aged 18-24 Haven't Had Sex In Past Year: Report

Young Americans are going more sexually inactive and this could have implications for public health.

There are 3 categories of problems in your life: [1] Your Problems (and her big problems) - Your car broke down, her car broke down, your job, immediate financial problems, house matainance, emerging issues, etc. Any real problem that your wife brings to you. You need to handle these things and not put any burden on your wife. [2] Shared Problems - These are things such as long-term finacial planning, big purchases, etc. You need to create a plan for these things, get your wife's buy-in, and then she can help you execute if necessary. [3] Her Small Problems - These are make believe girl problems. Becky is being a bitch, her sister did a stupid thing, the cleaning lady is coming tomorrow. Listen to her, repeat the problem and impact back to her, but do not offer new solutions. She does not want your solutions, she wants you to hear her, understand her, and support her. #leadership #women

Sometimes you don’t quite feel on the mood. If you want to get in the mood, look at something to turn yourself on, then put down the phone and go get your wife. (Men are easy like that) #relationships

This being said - you do not want to smother her. If you are at her side at all moments, she will take you for granted or even get annoyed by you. This could be from too much time in the same physical space or too much text messaging, always responding, etc. do not be a lapdog. Early on, this can crush attraction. Bring her along for the ride but always give her time to miss you. #attraction View quoted note →

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I bought a spreader bar.

Sometimes you just have to tell her that you can’t stand her attitude or she is being a bitch. She will keep pushing you until your push back. When you finally push back and stop giving in to every nag or complaint, she will stop. For a while. #women

Keep her accountable and she will reward you. If she wants to go out to dinner with her friends, that is fine - but be sure she completes her normal (or additional) tasks first. HER: Is it ok if I go to dinner with Becky on Thursday? HIM: That is fine, just make sure you fold that laundry before you go out. This reminds her that there are responsibilities and expectations around her behavior. Despite her pouting 🙁, her respect and attraction for you will increase because you are holding her accountable. #accountability

Order a new sex toy and have it delivered with your wife’s name on it. 🎁

Working from home is a double edged sword. Your wife is around all the time but you have likely become lazy. It is your job to tease her and build tension throughout the days. Always be ready to take her at any time (#retention) and do not give up if one day does not play out exactly how you want. If you have not been regularly having lunchtime sex, the first attempt may come as a big shock and she may resist. Be persistent over days and her defenses will go away. #wfh

Having intercourse without ejaculation can be as fun as it is challenging. Makes for long sessions where you are being hyper aware of your bodily sensations, need to be creative, practice self control, be present to the needs of your partner - gets even more interesting when your partner knows your goal and still does her best to make you ejaculate 😦 #retention #sex

The period between the first 24-60 hours of semen retention is often the most difficult. You feel the energy in your body. It can be hard to fall asleep with all the hormones flying. Do push-ups, tackle a new project, focus on building new ideas, or a new challenge - this can be a great time to push your limits and harness your sexual energy for sublimation / transmutation. #retention #sublimation #transmutation

Treat her like a school girl in public. Slap her ass, tease her, pull her hair. Build tension.

Your wife wants to brag about you, because it reflects well on her status within her cliques. You landed a new job, you are in great shape, you fuck like a rockstar, etc. She is not sharing this gossip to make you feel good - she is sharing this gossip to make herself feel good. Just keep giving her things to brag about. #women #leadership

Sometimes she is just crabby. This could be for any number of reasons. Do not take it personally and do not become emotionally triggered by her childish behavior. If you snap back at her or become put off by her, she will be resentful and the bad behavior will continue. Listen her complaints, tell her it will be okay, kiss her on the forehead, slap her on the ass, and send her off to take a bubble bath. #wife #relationships

When a woman is telling you her problems, she is not wanting you to solve her problems for her. She is getting the garbage out of her pea brain. Listen to her rant “omg Becky did yadda yadda yadda and …” then repeat it back to her and say how it made HER feel - “wow so she did yadda yadda yadda and you felt x, y, z” she will feel that you totally get her and are very insightful. #women #relationships