This is why I suggest not going for dinner for the first date(s). Yes guys can burn through a lot of money, and there are also way better activities. Best is to have her to your house to help you cook dinner. You see if she know anything about the kitchen, she swoons for man who cooks, and you are in the comfort of your own home. #dating View quoted note →

If your relationship is totally vanilla and you are totally vanilla, you have got to stir up some shit in order to juice the sexual energy. #attraction

Same actions will elicit different responses depending on your relationship to te woman: If she is there with you, then yes - objectify her, make a video of her, slap her ass in front of everyone - she will adore you for it If she is a stranger and you don’t have sexual rapport yet, you’re just a creepy weirdo who is recording women you don’t know #women #attraction View quoted note →

Now is the time to start thinking about her Christmas gifts: 🎁 1. Gifts (small) for her stocking 2. Gifts (homemade) “from the kids” 3. Gift (thoughtful) from you 4. Gift (sexy) from you #relationships #manstr

Taking the initiative to talk with your wife BEFORE stress levels get out of control (leaving for a trip, busy day ahead, lots of logistics, etc) will go a long way to build trust and show that you are taking responsibility for your shared life (it is not soley her responsibility to get your family out the door). Talk about logistics, how is she doing, how can you support her - whatever fits the situation. You may have work or other priorities but she still needs to feel seen and supported. Initiating a conversation, before she feels forced to come to you and ask for help, will remove a lot of angst and resentment from the situation. #responsibility #relationships

So far this week: Wife texted me on her way home from appointment, asked if I was available for her, 🍖 Wife came into my office naked, at the end of the work day, 🍖 Wife kissed me in the kitchen, I put her hands in the counter, lifted up the back of her robe, 🍖 #leadership #responsibility #attraction

The video shows constant transfers of power: Multiple guys recording on their phones, guy saying "ayy! ayyy! ayyyy!", barback staring at her, other bartender girls "ignoring" her - they are all giving the dancing bartender their power and she is feeding off of it. Everyone in the scene is letting their attenion (power) flow towards the bartender, thus creating a TENSION. Whomever can break that TENSION and get the bartender's energy (her real energy, not her "paying for a drink" energy) to flow towards them will be the winner. Everyone is giving their power to the bartender, and the bartender is then giving her power to the winner. #power #attraction View quoted note →

Attention is her currency, her power. All the guys at the bar giving her attention, making videos, leaving her $5 tips for being practically naked and acting like a slut - but in the end she’ll give her number to the guy who leaves her a 25¢ tip and complains about this drink, then he won’t call her. 🧠 #attraction #women View quoted note →

Women want to live in a fantasy, a movie, where they are skinny and eat whatever they want. You can join her movie and get wrecked, or bring her into your movie with your rules and live happily ever after. She doesn’t care what kind of movie (action, romance, porn…) she lives in, she is just struggling to it up on her own until she finds someone to lead and direct her. #women #leadership View quoted note →

When she loves you for who are, she wants you to go surfing while she has a photoshoot. That’s why she fell for you in the first place. #relationships View quoted note →

When she is being helpless and needy, give her what she needs. She requires gentle care and attention. Treat her like a child - take care of her, pamper her, be gentle with her feelings and her abilities. She does not have the same mental resilience as a man. She is not capable of suppressing her feelings like a man is. She needs your love, support, and guidance during “tough” times (aka when she is an emotional train wreck). #women #relationships

She stops acting like an exciting new girlfriend when you stop treating her like an exciting new girlfriend ⛓️🏏 #attraction #leadership View quoted note →

Being unphased by her behavior, good bad or otherwise, will charge the tension in a good way. She throws a fit about something insignificant - let her stomp her feet and walk away She puts a sexy song on the car radio and starts kissing your neck - focus on the road Acknowledge her good behavior, do not acknowledge her attempts to get a rise out of you. #women #attraction

Find the right ways to ask for what you want - otherwise you’ll probably never get it. #relationships

Let her hear you compliment other women, but not in a gross way #attraction

Make her slightly uncomfortable in public. #attraction

If your wife is being a tease, she is offering you a direct challenge - “come fuck me, you big dumb pussy” The same challenge is offered billions of times a day around the world. She is flaunting her body, making gestures in a secret or public setting, etc. She is testing you - are you are man enough to put her hands on the counter and pull up her skirt, or will you leave her disappointed again? Pass the test and more rewards await you. #attraction #relationships

She has the mentality of a child and you will find contentment if you treat her as such. Take responsibility for all things. #women #responsibility View quoted note →

If you are bickering with your wife, look at where you can take more responsibility. Stop being a reaction to her. Listen to her and grit your teeth a bit. Do what you can to get out of the negative cycle. #responsibility

She has as many fantasies as you do. #women View quoted note →