FILL IN THE BLANK: No one says on their deathbed, __________.

I miss the days when your "community" was the neighborhood you lived in. It's ironic how today's popular usage of the word "community" is actually quite divisive. I'm not part of the crypto community, the Linux community, or the kayaking community. I just happen to like those things.

The high cost of child care is crippling family finances. Here's my tip: Moms, quit your job, sell the extra car, donate your heels and pantsuits, prepare home-cooked meals, and care for your own family. The financial savings will add up. And you and your husband and your children will be happier.

Homosexusl couples cannot "have sex" with each other. Otherwise, we'd have to say licking a carrot and sticking it in our ear is called "eating." But we're too educated about the digestive system to think that. And we should be just as educated about the repriductive system.

For regular day-to-day messaging, I don't know why more people don't use XMPP. It's federated, well established, e2e encrypted, available on all platforms, requires no phone number or email, and is faster than greased lightning.

I'm neither promoting nor disparaging Donald Trump, but he did himself no favors starting and sticking with "Truth Social." It's awful (in the sense of unenjoyable), except signing up for it is a good way for him to get your contact info. We would all be better served if he communicated on nostr. It would drive more traffic to the network (he could even donate to its develooment), and he would not have to worry about censorship.

Do whatever you humanly can (short of sin) to GET OUT OF ALL DEBT. Go to heroic efforts to get this done right now. Sell your car, work on the side, work on the weekends, work overtime. Then live on less than your income, even if that means you live like you're poor. You're "rich" when you don't owe anyone anything. And you can sleep a lot better.

Imagine a baby is born with a penis, the way nearly half of babies are, and the woke parents name the baby Stephanie and assign the baby's gender as "female." If the baby grows up and comes out identifying as a straight man, would he be considered #transgender -- a transman -- because he identifies as something other than the gender assigned at birth, and changes his name to Stephen and proclaims his preferred pronouns of he, him, his? And what if he didn't want to be lumped in with the LGBT crowd for his realization and subsequent coming out, but rather publicly criticized his parents for causing him grief by falling for woke gender ideology? I would admire a guy like that. #NotTransphobic

What if we were told we had to submit a complete daily log of anyone with whom we spoke (even casual conversations), and when, and where we were at the time? Wouldn’t that feel intrusive, even if we have “nothing to hide”? And what if we had to document the exact contents of our discussions? Not that these records would necessarily be monitored in real time, but would always be available for investigation “just in case”? That’s what happens every time we send an email or an SMS text message. It’s all accessible to legal “authorities,” whose rightful business it isn’t. #Encryption #DigitalPrivacy #UseSignal #UseSession #UseXMPP #SMSisEvil #FBisEvil #GoogIsEvil

Can a man without children -- a man who identifies as such, in agreement with his assigned gender at birth -- rightfully demand that others respect his identity as a "mother"?

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I know I can't be close friends with a person if he is unable to correctly answer in one word (or less!) the question, "Can a man become a woman?"

We switched to MetroNet as our internet provider a couple weeks ago. The name of our installation technition was a Hispanic named Jesus. We already have an internet hardware issue that requires MetroNet to send a repairman to us today. His name is Christian. On this, their second coming, I hope they can perform s miracle by bringing our fiber optic internet connection back from the dead.

PRAYING TO SAINTS? There are different kinds of prayer: adoration (worship), contrition (expressing sorrow), thanksgiving, and supplication (asking). Only one of these kinds necessarily involves worship. That's how Catholics can pray to Mary and the saints. They don't adore or worship them in prayer (that would be idolatry). Most often, we seek favors from them -- such as asking them to offer intercessory prayers to God on our behalf. As people of prayer, we Catholics are sinful beggars seeking the prayers of each other and of those holier than ourselves -- whether people on earth or those who are already in heaven. "The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much," says the apostle James.

If you say racism is evil, then that's good. If you say transgender ideology is evil, then that's hateful bigotry.

One thing that makes me hesitate with regard to Nostr is not being able to delete the stupid notes we post. But I guess if we're going to use a social media like this, it's best to either be sure we are okay with a potentially embarrassing note lasting forever (or consider not posting it), or to be sure we are pseudononymous. In any case, I love knowing we can't easily be silenced, as we own our content outright with our keys. I think there's a good argument for not using social media at all; on the other hand, if really wanting to engage in respectful, thoughtful public dialogue, this is the place to do it. (I just know I'll say something stupid on here! I apologize in advance!)