I think Nostr is going to make it because that's how most OSS works once a certain threshold is achieved.
Also the incentives are more relaxed, a bug isn't going to destroy anyone's savings.
Just give it time and the zaps
To new Dads out there:
You got this, don’t stress, kids are all unique. Trust me, I have twins and they couldn’t be anymore different.
Relax, love them and enjoy the show.