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Saving your marriage requires more than a golden phrase.
In the moments when you feel helpless and like you don’t know what to say, it’s make or break.
These are the moment that edge you towards divorce faster, or hold the potential to stop it from happening altogether.
What I have found in working with 100’s of individuals and couples, is effective communication is a fundamental missing component.
You can save your marriage in a matter of weeks, but it requires you to DO SOMETHING different.
In this free workshop, I show you exactly where to start.
I’ll break down the most effective process to begin the journey of turning your marriage around, even if you feel you have tried EVERYTHING already.
In just a few short hours time, your relationship could be turning around, or continuing to end…
The decision is yours.
I’m giving this away for free because I know what it feels like to not know what to do…
Here’s how I started the journey of stopping divorce in my own marriage, and what is working for my clients RIGHT NOW.
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Grant Primal Fathers
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“I’ll take care of it”
“Yes, I’ll do that”
“Of course I can pick that up for you”
“Yeah, ill take the trash out”
All simple statements that are destroying your marriage faster than shitty tonality…
Why?
Because a man who doesn’t follow through on his word, is a man who cannot be trusted.
If you cannot pick something up from the store on the way home, how can you be relied on to lead the family to prosperity?
It’s not that you have to remember everything.. it’s the principle that your word means nothing to you.
You’re happy to say yes to everything and never actually deliver.
Thats the real issue.
Careless.
Responsibility free.
Accountable to no one.
It’s why the acceleration of my marriage almost ending occurred.
I was completely out of integrity when it came to following through on the things I said I would do.
Therefore, my wife couldn’t rely on me.
I forced her to be a strong and independent woman, because I was a weak unreliable man.
When I started to actually do what I said I was going to, the relaxation that followed was crazy to witness.
The look in my wife’s eye was different when she looked at me.
How do I know she trusts me implicitly now?
She tells me she trusts me and I watch her light up once it’s taken care of.
It never used to be this way, and now I wouldn’t go back to the man I was if you paid me.
If you’re ready to be a man of integrity and lead your wife into her relaxed feminine energy…
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No one teaches polarity as a priority.
And yet it’s fundamental in creating a passionate, deeply connected and emotional safe relationship.
When a man wants his wife to be submissive, respectful and supportive of him…
Often he demands it and expects it, by doing nothing different.
If his behaviour today warranted it, surely it would already be present?
I know that from my own experience, it wasn’t until I changed how I showed up in my marriage that the way my wife responded to be changed.
I’ve never had so much love, admiration and respect from her as I do now…
And I virtually do NOTHING like I used to.
Coincidence?
Absolutely not.
When you carry yourself in service, love, devotion and care for your wife and family, respect and admiration will follow.
When a man behaves energetically like a boy, he will never be treated like a man.
I learned this the hard way.
Arguments are not ‘healthy’, especially when they are a daily and weekly occurrence.
There is a difference between holding emotions and fighting it out to prove a point.
It can change, and the arguments can stop.
You have to be willing to change in order to do it.
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Emotional reactivity breeds a lack of safety in every aspect of the relationship.
A lack of;
- emotional security
- effective communication
- resolution
- trust
- devotion
- connection
And this is just the start.
The small moments where it’s more important for you to say something than it is to stay quiet are the moments that push your wife and keep her at her edge.
And it’s these exact moment that keep the cycle alive.
Effective communication means you communicate in a way that is effective in getting you more of what you want.
In a marriage, if you’re anything like me, that is peace and respect
So if that isn’t present, the communication is ineffective.
I never understood this, nor did I get polarity.
I bought into the 50/50 nonsense that ‘we are both able to say what’s on our mind at any point’
And I almost got divorced with that mentality.
It doesn’t work.
And it wasn’t until I changed how I communicated with my wife, that I really understood how delusional I’d become.
Now, she feels safe enough to say anything she needs to, when she needs to, all the while respecting me and my decisions.
How did we go from almost getting divorced to deep connection, love and respect?
I changed everything about me that was ineffective to things that were far more.
Now, me and my wife build our relationship together
Want to get rid of the reactivity and start building connection?
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Everytime my wife wanted to talk about a problem, my answer was no.
I was the king of shutting things down before they started and being defensive BEFORE we even spoke.
Every time she tried to show me where the relationship was failing, I convinced myself she was the problem because she was the only one raising them.
My mentality was if we’re not talking about problems, we don’t have them.
I played stories in my mind of why she wanted to raise them.
Too critical. Too emotional. Too controlling.
In reality, she was exhausted.
She was carrying the weight of everything; the kids, the house, the planning, the emotional labor
because I wasn’t leading.
And I blamed her for being stressed and distant from me.
When she packed those bags, my world turned upside down.
I dropped everything.
I turned to books, podcasts, videos. Anything that might help. I was desperate to not let my family end.
Then I discovered something I’d never been taught: masculine and feminine energy and polarity.
I knew what those words meant. But I didn’t know what they looked like in a relationship.
Turns out, she didn’t need me to be a “good husband” who showed up for dinner and didn’t cheat.
She needed my leadership. My presence. My strength.
And this what I was getting wrong. So wrong.
When I started to change, and do things different, I was blown away by how fast things started to shift.
Now, I look back and can’t believe how little I actually knew, but most importantly how happy my wife is because I heard the call to be different.
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You’re defensive, reactive and destroying your marriage because you don’t know any different.
You want ‘a good marriage’ yet don’t have the faintest idea how to achieve it.
It’s time to stop chasing delusion and actually create a thriving marriage real time.
Holding on resentment, continuing to be defensive and pretending like you want things to change when you do nothing different is NOT going to heal your relationship.
The time to do it different is now.
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In order to know what needs to you be done in order to stop arguing, you first need to be in the room.
Not just physically - emotionally, energetically and mentally
Your wife can feel when your mind is elsewhere where and you’re not paying attention.
You have the shortest amount of time possible to respond because you’re not present, so she gets the snappy, reactive and defensive attitude
When you react this way. Nothing is getting better.
It’s only getting worse.
I had to relapse how poor my listening and presence had become in order to truly see why my marriage was breaking down.
And because I did, everything has changed.
We now talk about everything, whenever it needs to be discussed.
No emotional reactivity, no eruptions, no fights… just hard conversations that stay as conversations
What’s the by product of that?
Deep connection, love, respect and a life we don’t need to escape.
We are now more devoted to each other than ever before because the emotional security has been built and strengthened.
It’s unnatural right now, but it can become the norm.
Start with being more present and listening to what’s really going on.
You’ll be amazed at how much you were missing and how simply it can be restored
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Men are of service
Boys are being looked after
Which are you?
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It was only 16months ago that we were homeless.
Reflecting on it brings back a range of feelings, especially now that life is so different.
The biggest lesson I learned in the process from going from nothing to rebuilding our lives was that the strength of your union will be the strength of your pursuits.
The masculine inside of us as men strives to grow, achieve and accomplish great things. However those pursuits lack fulfilment without a devoted woman by your side.
In having lost everything material, I also came close to losing my marriage.
When decided which to heal and rectify first, I’m grateful I chose my union.
If there is one thing I can impart to you today, it’s that nothing is truly worth fighting over when you love someone deeply and truly.
Compassion, empathy, boundaries, love and respect are all that matter.
The challenges will continue to come, so we may as well work through them together.
When it comes to your union, be sure to choose;
Peace before point proving
Calm before chaos
Silence before shouting
Love before lashing out
Respect before resentment
Empathy before eruptions
Boundaries before belittling
The future is bright and peaceful together, when we decide to be different 🙏🏻
#love #masculinity #femininity #union #devineunion #puravida


As consciously aware parents, we have a choice.
We can pass our trauma onto our children, or we can be their protective shield to break the cycle.
My wife and I make sure we embody the energy we desire more of (masculine & feminine) and display the traits we desire more as often as possible.
I want my son to be a compassionate warrior and my daughter to be a strong nurturer.
The balance is key, as everything in life.
With divorce rates over 60% in a western world, most children are raised in broken families and learn this to be normal.
This is why we break the cycle.
We must show them oneness and wholeness being the norm at home.
Embodying the masculine and feminine energy within and without.
Raising parents if the future to be all they can, with an open heart and critical mind.
The new home gym has quickly become the favourite playground 💚
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Families of the future play more than they work.
The dynamic at home is shifting… men are becoming gentlemen and women are amplifying abundance.
Strong marriages will display new and desirable attributes…
🙏🏻They talk more than they disagree.
🙏🏻They connect rather than isolate.
🙏🏻The tide is turning for narrative on what constitutes a ‘good’ marriage.
2025 we will see families;
💚Speak their truth
❤️Honour their health
💚Play every day
❤️Immerse in nature
💚Embody masculinity & femininity
❤️Seek to understand
💚Display compassion
❤️Have stronger boundaries
💚Love & respect more
⚡️Use bitcoin to function
The future is bright, connected and full of love.
We connecting to a primal ways of being and thriving 🙏🏻💚❤️


Exploring the jungle as a family and immersing into nature is becoming a more natural part of life.
When we look at polarities relationship, we forget the polarity and beauty that nature shows us.
The masculine of the air, meeting the feminine of Mother Earth to create the beautiful setting where we find peace.
Your union is the same with your wife. When you bring the balance of your masculine to meet the balance of your wife’s feminine, harmony is created.
Families of the future live in harmony with love and respect.
The times of family life being full of chaos, resentment and arguments are slowly melting away 🙏🏻


Good Morning Everyone,
I’m Grant and me and my family (wife, 2 children, 3rd in the way) have moved our lives to Costa Rica from London to live the Pura Vida Life.
I work the Nomad Life as an online mens and couples coach, whilst creating space containers for growth to occur.
I came across Nostr via the YouTube video of BTCJungle via another container I am part of, and began exploring the whole idea. This lead me to finding @paul keating and the @primal app - and I’m excited to become part of this growing platform.
Whilst I’ve been observing for a few weeks, I feel it’s time to start pouring some energy into connecting in this space, as I can see the true power of real connections that take place here 🙏🏻
My area of focus is healing relationships through masculine & feminine balance, whilst creating family life abundance. So I’ll be sharing more about as we continue to create our journey here in Costa Rica.
I’m big into all things holistic health, divine union & family, spirituality, numerology, crypto and polarity so look forward to connecting with more community focused people.
It’s great to be here and I’m looking forward to sharing this space with you.
Grant
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