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⚡️ Can’t kill my vibe, it’s immortal. ⚡️ Be open minded, but not so much your 🧠 falls out. #bitcoin
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alanajoy 2 years ago
Stuffed cabbage tonight 🥬 This isn’t the most visually appealing when served but… trust me, it’s phenomenal. ✨👌 #foodstr
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alanajoy 2 years ago
Bless those with the jump to recipe button image
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alanajoy 2 years ago
DYOR bitcoiners: Dudes in the group chat so it must be true 😂 image
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alanajoy 2 years ago
We’re two weeks into the teacher strike, so I finally caved and got her a skateboard. image
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alanajoy 2 years ago
IDK who needs to hear this but single people over 40, especially those with children, are not and should not be playing by the same dating rules as those looking to start a family. My biological clock isn’t ticking. I’m not counting on a partnership to provide me a nice life. I’m looking for a partner, not to adopt another dependent. At this point, you need to be adding more than you’re taking or what you’re taking from is my child, whether that be energy, money, emotional capacity… Don’t feel bad about yourself for not having the same playbook as someone else. In fact, feel good about it. There’s no one size fits all path to happiness or success. If you’re going to take relationship advice from anyone, take it from someone who’s been in a successful marriage for 10 to 20 years. Don’t take parenting advice from someone who has no kids, etc. There are certainly things to learn from these people, but when you are in a different era of life you’re playing a very different game. It’s not a feminist take to want *at least* an equal at this point. It’s an ROI calculation as head of household and the person truly responsible for another life. You know best what is good enough for you and yours.
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alanajoy 2 years ago
Mothers don’t argue with children, we raise them.
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alanajoy 2 years ago
creamy tuscan garlic chicken over spaghetti 🍝 #foodstr image
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alanajoy 2 years ago
“Your whole idea about yourself is borrowed - borrowed from those who have no idea of who they are themselves.” - Osho ➡️ Take it back.
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alanajoy 2 years ago
fuckery is isomorphic with the complex field image