On macos and windows i literally have to fight the system to get it to do what i want it to do. Even use my own resources like space and processing as how i'd like it. Insane!
I love just being able to walk in stores buy things with cash without having to give up my identity, how did we lose that? How did this become such an abnormal thing to want.
My solution for the NIP-17 DMs IX issue :
- if a user doesn't have DM relays set, semd the DM to their regular relays.
The sender doesn't lose privacy since it's gift wrapped. Receiver leaks to the people that he receoved a message not what and not from whom, but atleast he gets the message.
The assumption: Privacy conscious receivers already have DM relays set.