📰 Many viable #rss feeds are not working with atomstr.data.haus, even after 12h waiting time post setup. Which RSS bridging options are there? I would really like to add more sources to my Home feed. #asknostr #rss #feeds #bridges #help

Why can't I see how many people f̲̲o̲̲l̲̲l̲̲o̲̲w̲̲ m̲̲e̲̲? Do I even have any followers? My profile only shows who I follow. #asknostr #why #nostr #followers #missing

💐 I̲̲n̲̲ r̲̲o̲̲m̲̲a̲̲n̲̲c̲̲e̲̲, having a "Plan B" might be more of a problem than an asset, no? So if women do it, do men also constantly look out for options? I don't think so... When we are in a relationship, their world often shrinks to consist only of HER. But maybe I haven't been dating long enough to get the complete picture.

Jacaranda FM

50% of women have a backup man

50% of women have a backup man

#men #women #relationship #menvswomen #options #planb #commitment #marriage View quoted note →

I don't own any Monero yet but would certainly appreciate the option of having M̲̲o̲̲n̲̲e̲̲r̲̲o̲̲ p̲̲a̲̲y̲̲m̲̲e̲̲n̲̲t̲̲s̲̲ on Nostr. People are always annoying. I also don't like how Bitcoin content is filling up my feed when I'm looking for a more casual and diverse experience. You can always find different communities in different places. This is a free protocol. Use it how you like but don't expect anyone to follow your way. We are the people, F̲̲r̲̲e̲̲e̲̲ s̲̲p̲̲e̲̲e̲̲c̲̲h̲̲ means bearing with other's opions. View quoted note →

📺 Reminder. We are poisoning our minds and numbing our limbic system with E̲̲n̲̲t̲̲e̲̲r̲̲t̲̲a̲̲i̲̲n̲̲m̲̲e̲̲n̲̲t̲̲. We are losing sight and control of our lives. This makes video games, browsing etc. dangerous supplies for a̲̲d̲̲d̲̲i̲̲c̲̲t̲̲i̲̲o̲̲n̲̲! Who is responsible for people growing up like this? Parents? #asknostr #internet #addiction #videogames #habits #lifestyle #modern #parenting #life

Becoming conservative might increase happiness and reduce risk for loneliness. 🤯 #happiness #loneliness #happy #lonely #stats #politics #conservative #trends

Institute for Family Studies

Why So Blue: Liberal Women are Less Happy, More Lonely. But Why?

Less marriage and religion help explain liberal women’s unhappiness.

Real families, real happiness... (Marriage & Kids)

Institute for Family Studies

Who Is Happiest? Married Mothers and Fathers, Per the Latest General Social Survey

Social media and mainstream media are replete with stories suggesting marriage and parenthood are not fulfilling, especially for women. Not sur...

#marriage #kids #happiness #stats #happy

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impressive.

Express.co.uk

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Please check out my recent comments (posts quoting an extensive article by @fakegurwinder) on human cognitive #biases. I contributed where it spoke to me the most. I'm curious for replies and reactions! #psychology #reply #asknostr View quoted note →

Bias #30 - G̲̲e̲̲n̲̲e̲̲r̲̲a̲̲t̲̲i̲̲v̲̲i̲̲t̲̲y̲̲ Effect (position of knowledge) If you put yourself in the position of an expert that knows (even if you don't), so you can experience the f̲̲l̲̲o̲̲w̲̲ s̲̲t̲̲a̲̲t̲̲e̲̲ (Csíkszentmihályi). Increase your knowledge by sharing and connect what you already know. But be warned - it might turn your study into a cruise! View article → #mindhack #knowledge #bias

Bias #29 - Y̲̲e̲̲s̲̲-̲̲m̲̲a̲̲n̲̲!̲̲ Effect ("When xyz happens, I will...") I also tend to think that I or my life will change in a certain (optimistic) way, without making any meaningful s̲̲t̲̲e̲̲p̲̲s̲̲ in that direction. Bad, bad habit. It goes hand in hand with making p̲̲r̲̲o̲̲m̲̲i̲̲s̲̲e̲̲s̲̲. Don't make promises guys, just don't. You're just adding disappointment and dispair, guilt and shame. Instead, showoff the chadman you already are and make people feel special. Be honest and accept that plans may need adjustments. View article → #nopromises #provide #here #now

Bias #28 - C̲̲o̲̲m̲̲p̲̲a̲̲s̲̲s̲̲i̲̲o̲̲n̲̲ F̲̲a̲̲d̲̲e̲̲ (drama rules!) Be mindful of the b̲̲a̲̲d̲̲ n̲̲e̲̲w̲̲s̲̲ you consume. It might d̲̲e̲̲s̲̲e̲̲n̲̲s̲̲i̲̲t̲̲i̲̲z̲̲e̲̲ you, and over time you b̲̲e̲̲c̲̲o̲̲m̲̲e̲̲ part of the problem that caused the bad news in the first place. View article → #mindfulness #action #betterworld #socialjustice #news #compassion

Bias #27 - A̲̲g̲̲e̲̲n̲̲d̲̲a̲̲-̲̲S̲̲e̲̲t̲̲t̲̲i̲̲n̲̲g̲̲ Theory (p̲̲r̲̲i̲̲m̲̲a̲̲t̲̲e̲̲ of the press) Lifehack: Assemble your o̲̲w̲̲n̲̲ f̲̲e̲̲e̲̲d̲̲s̲̲ and spread your trust across different (kinds of) people (i̲̲n̲̲d̲̲i̲̲v̲̲i̲̲d̲̲u̲̲a̲̲l̲̲s̲̲), not instititutions. #people not #institutions ! View article → #communities #news #manipulation #agenda

Bias #26 - S̲̲h̲̲i̲̲n̲̲y̲̲ O̲̲b̲̲j̲̲e̲̲c̲̲t̲̲ Syndrome (novelty bias) Lifehack: Recycle o̲̲l̲̲d̲̲ g̲̲o̲̲l̲̲d̲̲ to new gold, such as nuggets of wisdom from old books into Nostr posts ;) View article → #content #old #books #recycle #bias

Bias #25 - F̲̲e̲̲r̲̲g̲̲u̲̲s̲̲o̲̲n̲̲ E̲̲f̲̲f̲̲e̲̲c̲̲t̲̲ ("you get what you ask for") Indeed, be mindful of the messages you send. If you truly want someone to l̲̲i̲̲s̲̲t̲̲e̲̲n̲̲, be okay with s̲̲h̲̲o̲̲w̲̲i̲̲n̲̲g̲̲ v̲̲u̲̲l̲̲n̲̲e̲̲r̲̲a̲̲b̲̲i̲̲l̲̲i̲̲t̲̲y̲̲. Otherwise, just talk to y̲̲o̲̲u̲̲r̲̲ d̲̲o̲̲g̲̲, or to your phone, who cares. View article → #honesty #vulnerability #realtalk

Bias #22 - A̲̲m̲̲b̲̲i̲̲g̲̲u̲̲i̲̲t̲̲y̲̲ A̲̲v̲̲e̲̲r̲̲s̲̲i̲̲o̲̲n̲̲ ("please, just end it") Ambiguity is one of the greatest e̲̲n̲̲e̲̲m̲̲i̲̲e̲̲s̲̲ of our mind. A mind constantly looking for survival - which it strongly relates to predictability and stability as p̲̲e̲̲r̲̲c̲̲e̲̲i̲̲v̲̲e̲̲d̲̲ s̲̲a̲̲f̲̲e̲̲t̲̲y̲̲. View article → #staycurious #mindful #progression #tolerate #ambiguity #survival #threats #safety