it's a bit weird to be giving people career tips when i don't really believe in careers anymore but i don't have a better recipe

a Japanese female programmer just introduced herself here. she is in both exactly the right and the wrong place.

i think Iggy Pop has a point here. i notice now that it says down in the corner "have a gay day". i'm not gay. but i'm okay with men being gay. or straight men wearing a dress. why is that not a thing?

"i can fix her." shut up, brain.

German and the Scandinavian languages have a habit in common we make up words krisemaksimeringstendenser crisis maximisation tendencies for example

my nerves were on the outside of my body today, so it was a little rough to move out among people

finished lunch with friend and i am very overstimulated now

who's a good girl?

you don't know anything about how well your country functions unless you've made friends with a few people who don't fit into the system

why is it always that when you get attention you get addicted to it

one more time something for both the music lovers and the anime lovers this time

as a person with executive function issues (#ADHD) i see the value of having that more than others, i think. it gives some insight. all people vary in how much they have of that trait. some people are almost machine-like in their ability to coherently execute a plan. others are less so. this ability to persistently organise and execute is how people make more money, gain more power, have more sex. it's not entirely up to you. circumstances and genes play a significant role. significant enough that i can't really be a right winger. it's just too obvious that the playing field isn't even.

a friend of mine has all these airline miles he doesn't know what to do with, and also, free cruises to Denmark. they're usually off-season cruises on inconvenient days, but seeing as i'm not employed, that's not really a problem for me.

new PFP

whether you're male or female and whether you're friends with a male or a female, one of the least interesting things you can talk about with your friends is your love interests and partners, unless they're mutual friends. more broadly speaking, listening to people talk about people you've never met is pretty uninteresting.

this is what sucks about being friends with people who are in relationships, car stuff or not

you read it on Wikipedia once? i read Wikipedia too. shocking, isn't it...

how to be beautiful

Dilbert principle