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i always feel this very uncomfortable "knot" in my stomach when i'm overstimulated or in distress.

sucks to have to cut a new best friend off because you love her and it's not mutual.

discussing people or ideas is not the point, really. actions are the point.

i have to learn to trust my gut instinct more there are girls on the bus i like more than anyone on a dating site. i don't want to bother. but who knows what they feel? am i bothering? maybe they want to talk. to me? in my experience, no. i often want to talk to girls or women i see when i'm shopping, but it's not socially appropriate. but i'm aware that it can be attractive if these rules are broken. "can" so, when, then?

i have to learn to trust my gut instinct more there are random girls on the bus i like more than anyone on a dating site. i don't want to bother. but who knows what they feel? do i know if i'm bothering? maybe they want to talk.

dad laughed when i was six and said about opera singers that they don't sing they scream

would be nice to be close friends with women but i always want to marry them when i try

failure is the new success

i kind of think my recent ex made a mistake. maybe some years later, she'll get it.

there is no use in remembering to write a shopping list when you forget about it by the time you're leaving for the grocery store no one ever tells you how to remember that you forgot! productivity gurus, you never tell us how to do THAT.

ah, it's "talk to to the void" time again. when i have to talk, but not a soul on Earth really cares.

any tips for how to self-regulate after a stimulating event? whenever i leave a social situation, the excitement i felt at being with people turns into nervous energy and restlessness that stays around for a few hours. i don't know what to do to bring it down quicker. it's uncomfortable. i have a slight shiver. it's like having too much coffee.

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maybe he wants to have a fall

always gotta love it when someone chooses as their first interaction with you online, to be mildly irritating. great first impression there, buddy!

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Judging vs Perceiving/Prospecting types in the MBTI system in the Big Five system that psychologists use, the Conscientiousness trait is essentially the same thing - do you lean toward dutifulness or spontaneity? in the Dungeons & Dragons alignment system, there is Chaotic vs Lawful, which is similar.

in Buddhism, much time is spent on seeking deeper meaning and dropping attachments to things. but isn't the need for meaning also an attachment?

anybody ever have the experience that being merely around a certain person just calms you down?