Please refer to Leonardo Di'Caprio's performance at the film "The Beach" for directions towards fair conventional forms of communication outside the house place (to be in transit, or as tourist)
The indomitable starts the moment you set foot out of the domestic, that is even, to think about the outside. Better yet, the very recognition of inside and outside could be a even finer primer of life in society
There is the domestic, and the indomitable
That might be a very primer needed to get an outcome that could be described in around the terms of "civilization", or life in society
Precisely, the main justification to this write lies upon calling out the paradox that results of calling another social group the NIMBY group, one can not do that without becoming ipso facto a NIMBY too by his own right. How so? Because the back-yard of one ends up becoming, no matter how or what (afaik) the back-yard of another. So the NIMBY phenomena very well could be a phenomena of the experience of the otherness.
Yes places has character
Yes, one can feel attached to a place, miss it and treasury it
Is not a matter of social class, nor education, it may be rooted in our perception "by default" if you like to say so
Conventionally, to try solve the NIMBY dilemma is to declare winner a side of society over the defeat of another; this approach could be delicate insofar the rules of cohabitation thus are the outcome of said confrontation.