I just had a dream that told me instead of Gold being an object that should be bought and sold, it is actually the pro forma (I believe that was the Latin word in the dream) of all of life. As in it is simply a documentation of, vs being the thing itself. I woke up right when that came in and so I’m kind of foggy but if anyone wants to expand on this or if there’s something here, let me know. I was out DEEP in a nap.

I am opening space to work with two very specific men and I have a feeling they exist in my Substack community.  As I have been doing sessions with men over the last year+, I’ve watched how my system interacts with theirs and there is a very particular way the medicine moves. My work with men is twofold. 1- My system reflects and puts language to what is in their system and their life in a way that they can more easily see and understand it. 2- My energy and guidance helps attune their bodies to the energy alive in them in a way that gives them more literacy and influence over their experience in the world.  This is the work of a woman.  I’ve also noticed my work with men moves through them faster than my female clients, simply because of the male design. Men can move energy into aligned action relatively quickly. Now, of course every person is different, but when the men are open to my sight and guidance, it can be quick. A woman’s sight is energy efficient. We can sense and reflect things that would take a man a considerable amount of resources to arrive at himself. It is not better, it is simply a way we can compliment is own intelligence.  So, I am making a direct invitation to the men in my world here who feel resonance with my energy and my writing. You do not need to understand it all. It probably will not feel like a super rational choice. Because it will be your body/ soul responding over your logical mind. Which brings me to the type of man that is a good fit for this work:  -You spend a lot of time in your head but you are clear that you have a very sensitive energetic body. You just aren’t comfortable feeling it often.  - You are open to Feminine sight and reflection. -You are navigating a relational or personal shift in your life and are looking at yourself and your patterns deeply. These are the key ones, and honestly, if you feel a natural interest/ curiosity or pull to working with me, I always say trust that. We can discuss and I will let you know if I feel a resonance and you can feel yourself deeper too.  To get a taste of the work, I am offering initial sessions for $122 so let me know if you want to book one in and we can move from there.

This is how I feel spending time with soulmate women who I hang out with in the ethers but hadn’t met in person. They also make me wear my sexy dressy things 🥰 @Ginger

There is a distinct energetic difference between a man pleasuring you because he gets off seeing you get off. And a man pleasuring you because he enjoys your body and the process. An attuned woman can feel the slight transactionality of the former. And before the men jump at me in the comments, I am not saying being turned on by her being turned on is wrong or shouldn’t happen. It’s beautiful and hot. But can you feel the slight difference between the two?

I genuinely don’t think most men know how important it is to go down on a woman. Not because you have to, but because you want to. Because you have care, and love and reverence for the opening between two worlds. And if you don’t, I don’t think you should be having sex with her.

Contorting our expression in the name of gentleness and femininity may be one of the greatest tropes a woman can fall for.

I couldn’t put all the words needed for this magical story into just a note so I wrote a whole article. I am still soaking in the magic of receiving my painting from @🟠 isolabellart It is not just a painting. It is so much more. Read along here: View article →

Tonight I dance for the men. The ones who are facing the darkness. Inside and out. Who are feeling the squeeze. The call. The invitation. Tonight I felt my heart raw from the men in my life who are in the arena. Men who must battle alone. Only accompanied by my prayers and God. Men who I love. In all the ways a woman can. And so, as they are carved, one day at a time Tasked with what is only theirs to meet, I dance for them.

GM ❄️☀️

My friend Julia and I were just talking about how we value the truth from men even when it’s uncomfortable or not to our preferences. And she said something that really stuck. She said (paraphrasing) that there’s a difference between the women who say they want the truth but can’t actually handle it and those who have attuned their systems to truth and can therefore receive it. And I think it’s important to remember that it is a 2 part process. Being able to receive the truth as it is requires work. It is a process of self attunement. It’s one thing to want it, but another to handle it. And also, important for men to know that when many women say they want it but react poorly, it’s not because they lied, it’s because they have not yet done the work to be able for receive and hold it. Desire is one thing. Preparing the vessel for it is another.