Honestly, Iβm a bit confused by the βNostr is for everyone ( normies included) / we welcome normiesβ narrative sometimes. Because in practice, it doesnβt really feel built for that. And when someone points that out, the response is often βrun your own relayβ or similar.
But most normal users donβt want to run infrastructure, manage relays, or deal with technical setup for basic social use. They just want something that works out of the box. So Iβm trying to understand what that narrative actually means in reality. Is Nostr really aiming for mainstream users, or is it mainly a space for developers and more technical users? To me, those two goals feel quite different, and Iβm just trying to make sense of the gap between the messaging and the actual user experience.