Suggestion to my peeps who've given up on zaps:
I get it, shit can be frustrating sometimes. However, I use zaps as a type of reaction. Consider adding a Lightning address for something or someone you'd like to support. It'll cost you nothing that I know of. My zaps will go through. Someone you like will get a small amount of support they wouldn't otherwise get. Nothing changes for you other than seeing zaps. You could probably even disable those notifications.
Thank you for considering my proposal.