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I heard someone say a long time ago that life only gives us what we can handle. I'm not sure. And I don't understand how life knows that. And how those around us know that. I watch people around me breaking under the weight of life. People tired, discouraged, separated from everything. Giving up on their dreams. And nothing can bring them back into the game of life. Did they only get what they could handle? I'm not sure. Many times in school I failed an exam. I was given assignments that I didn't know how to face. Not only in school, but in life. I was at rock bottom and more than I should have been. And then I said to myself: I'll try again. I guess these blows taught me something. I realized one thing. Life doesn't always give us what we can handle. It often breaks us, destroys us, finishes us off. But it's up to us to put ourselves back together. Get up again. Dust ourselves off. And move forward. GM
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So, in the end I think "handling" is not about looking good while going through it I think. Because I asked myself this question as well, very often. As long as you get up after the fall, you handled it. But where this "life gives you only blabla" thing doesn't work for me, what if this ends up in taking your own life - so yes, strange saying.
2025-11-11 08:41:59 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Having trust, faith in life and in yourself (not in an idea!), truly, is one of the most difficult things to reclaim after our Western upbringing. When you are able again to feel gratitude for what life provides you, to see what really is, and not only what your mind cinema is displaying to you, then faith in yourself and life becomes stronger. The path towards more awareness is meditation (Vipassana), yoga, the Wim Hof method, self-reflection (J Krishnamurti, A. De Mello) ... others that I didn't explore myself ... and then connecting with nature and living creativity 🙏🏼 If you identify with your mind and body alone as being life, suffering is a natural consequence and it can feel like life is breaking people. But is it really true?
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