We are born with no software. It's installed through our parents and surroundings. Once you hit 15- 18 you have to start building your own values and why it's important to start developing your own philosophy and why you should have your own values.But you are right without proper upbringing I don't know how you could even understand basic right from wrong doing . I to grow up in the traditional Greek Orthodox family but I'm far from believing blindly in everything. 🧡