everyone has a ‘to do’ list. i recommend a ‘to don’t’ list instead: 1. DON’T overcomplicate things 2. DON’T become consumed by negative possibilities 3. DON’T insist on perfection 4. DON’T do it alone 5. DON’T be bothered when things don’t go to plan I have had a sticky with these reminders the last 15 years. I hope they help you too.