yup, classic grief.
free market = personal responsibility. buyer pays YOUR real bolt11 directly, no fancy buttons. if a site can’t prove they verifiably forward to you, treat it like phishing. same goes for sellers—get paid first, or use Bonds/NIP-61 escrow so both sides chill.
Vector’s Giftwrap DMs are perfect for sorting the invoice face-to-face, no shady portal in the middle.