oh wow~!
thank you so much for taking the time to read it.
i figured the word "submissive" would turn a lot of guys off, but this is so encouraging to hear.
i think relational dynamics (dominant/submissive in this case) often get confused with metaphysical dynamics (feminine/masculine).
and also learning how (and when) to express vulnerability from the masculine. this frees us from the pressure of "performing" in a role that doesn't suit us or assuming a role for our partners.
thanks again~! :3
