I have a few in my family, that don't play video games, no weed or intoxicants, have been childless and plan to be for their remaining lives, making a scapegoat of things you don't like/understand is stupid. Let people enjoy their lives and have experiences they like.

People use various outlets differently. Sounds like your brother is using games to escape reality but that doesn’t make games bad or anything - it’s an outlet like many others.