To use Tailscale you need to log into their services, preferably (for them) via g00gle. Luckily I had an old Github burner account I signed up with, otherwise I'd be KYC'ed via g00gle (instead choosing m1cr0s0ft?!). It feels messy, I'm sure while many here try their best with privacy, the smallest misstep, that the average user may not comprehend, undoes everything.

I use it with a burner github account too. While there's no 100% clean method, I will stiil look into headscale as an alternative. Thanks for highlighting that.

I don't know to be honest, this is where things start going over my head! Maybe I should forget having a relay until I understand what I'm doing...