That sucks and I feel for both of you, especially you. As the seller of a product you have a certain level of responsibility to ensure the buyer understands what he/she’s purchasing and to offer an easy and verified way to transact.
Unfortunately, when the buyer doesn’t do their homework, things like this happen and even though you have done your part, you still feel somewhat responsible and that is understandable.
However, I do find it a bit unreasonable for the buyer who doesn’t do any due diligence, to try and lay all of the responsibility on the seller.
I would say within the next year you should be able to stop using websites and just sell your product through the Nostr protocol, there are enough safeguards already in place, on top of common sense, to ensure something like this doesn’t happen here.
I would suggest writing in your bio, which website was selling your stuff and not compensating you for it, with a nice be DANGER written above it.
That should hopefully ward off any other possible users of that website that may find themselves on the losing end of a transaction.
