Unspoiled is a way of saying "have not slept around". Ought a man desire that his wife be a woman who has joined herself to multiple other men before him? Ought a woman see the height of sexual experience as "good sex" with men who don't love them enough to covenant with them in marriage, have children with them, be fiercely monogamous, and build a life together?
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I think that’s a beautiful idea. I just think it should go both ways and that if a man is looking for a “pure” woman he himself should be that. I have nothing against virgin marrying. I have something against a man saying he’s looking for a pure woman with no friends.
He said what he said, not what he didn't say. No one is arguing a double standard that it is good for men to sleep around.
Also, nothing was said about a woman not having friends. The point is no close male friends who act as sponsors and no gossip long the female friends.
