i didnt ask you to take it as valid bro... just slow down. i am just a truth-seeker and a person who is comfortable asking questions... I presented it to you as something that people like me are wrestling with... and then i said "either you care or you dont"... you have an opportunity to discuss it now... this is some kind of a conversation about certain things. i sent you some information about the certain things... not sure what else you want me to do for you bud. if you dont have 5 minutes to look at it for yourself then you arent really serious enough for me anyway. you can find the answers to your question by beginning the tortuous 5-minute reading request.