Our secular society obscures truth and harms us all when it tries to redefine words like family, woman, marriage, and abortion. There are Christians who also spread confusion when they claim "Christianity is not a religion, but a relationship." What does that mean? Should we presume to be "irreligious"? Does religion preclude relationship? I don't think "religion" means what they think it means. Everyone misspeaks, but we should be careful with our words so we don't mislead others -- or ourselves.