Doxxing is the publication of someone's personal data in a public place, usually the Internet. It is not a private request to delete something from a relay. I shouldn't have to explain that to you.

You're being seemingly intentionally obtuse so that you can grandstand about how much of an absolutist you are. If someone did this to someone in your family, you would not like it. You would take action. Even if you "don't like it" there was a way to handle it like a man offline. Very gay and embarrassing behavior to post publicly like that.