We as in all humans.

I have a hard time believing women don't also see the beauty of women. Men aren't physically attractive in the way women are, no matter how perfect they maintain their bodies. Male attraction fundamentally is due to fertility. A woman that expresses infertility is seen as the equivelant as a man in terms of desirability. Its when women decide money and security is more important than self indulgent fetishes and perversion they decide to get married to a man and have children.