I think Damus is for mobile only....(?) I try use clients that are desktop accessible. My eyesight isn't as good & my hands shake too much now.

/I’m using damus regardless ! I Don’t care what phone number the device goes to../

in the setting on Damus, there is a toggle to not show notifications for replies with x number of npubs tagged in them. and you can drag your threshhold to something you like.

It isn’t showing on primal at all but seeing it on yakihonne