If you don’t look inside, you’ll self-sabotage your dreams and stay living small while calling it “God’s plan.” Carl Jung said it another way: “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” Most men were never taught to examine their programming. They just inherited guilt, stress and pressure from their dads and called it character. But as Brandon says: If you don’t deal with the pain, you’ll build your entire life around avoiding it. And then pretend that’s what God wanted for you. Instead, Sit down, get still, and ask your heart what’s actually running the show. The answer might scare you, but it’ll also set you free.