i notice that both of you use getalby at least to receive bitcoin from nostr. bitcoinrocks@getalby.com yegorpetrov@getalby.com from what i can tell that is custodial unless you are running your own lightning node. running a lightning node is way beyond the scope of 99.999% of society a good 5 standard deviations outside the norm. currently NONE of the SELF custody wallets are allowed as lightning addresses on damus or primal. I USE WOS to receive and breez to send.