right now, having one build one's own relay or blossom server is not easy, but over time, as the developer community grows more and there more people who also want to have their own relays, surely in the future anyone will be able to build their relays and servers in a simpler way than is barely possible today.
I will say that because I wanted to build my own relays, I ended up learning to use postgresql, javascript, to use the terminal more and understand that once you open an ssh port, that is where one should take cybersecurity seriously. I still can't put together a relay, but learning new languages I feel was worth it.
