I'm in the same boat, have been for years. Now with things like discord and snapchat and whatever else automatically tattling every word you said to the feds so they can kick your doors in in a matter of minutes regardless of the context. Even sms is somewhat off limits and is purposely de-prioritize it. And yes, the normie has 1000 apps on their phone, but they won't add one more for you. And in their mind it's nothing they need to concern themselves with and they haven't been affected enough to care. So they don't find our reason valid. If you had any idea how upset my friends/family get when I tell them I "can't" scan a QR code or I won't answer their phone calls XD.