There’s a massive difference, the legal system is rigged against men. And women know it, so the minute you don’t behave the way they want or they decide they aren’t “happy” anymore, and if they decide to be spiteful or vindictive they can destroy your life. I’m 47, and I can’t count how many stories I know of people I personally know this happening to. Life should be about living a life together and having a family and it is better that way, but the system has eroded that dream away and dismantled the family unit. Women can’t find men because all the good ones are one the other side of family court disemboweled lol.