It is tough responsibility to hosting self relay as people has right to report ( if that options available) then the administrator to decide .. whether to act based on the report or based on his self conscious. Most of the time , they go to censor or delete the post as to show to the people that reported that he/ she as own the relay take responsibility and serious if some people reporting things . Regardless if the post it self is not bother anyone else except the one that reported .