i wish i could help you understand where you are wrong and why you are being harmful towards others. i see that it’s not your conscious intention, but in reality, you are not being so nice towards women and it ends up harming and hurting other people. maybe it will occur to you later. i hope you would just encourage ~everyone~ to be happy and have fun with sports. it doesn’t have to only be the strongest male players. it’s just fun. please just let everyone have fun.