Happiness is derived from collective wisdom. Collective wisdom is fuelled by egoless hearts. Egoless hearts are stimulated by creativity. Creativity flourishes when you are totally free. Freedom is possible only when you transcend the good and evil. You can't find escape velocity from good and evil if your family bonds are your liabilities. So, it is an unresolvable "koan" for normies. When everything breaks down, the real journey begins...from within.