There’s a hard relationship truth I’ve been avoiding.
No matter how supportive or beautiful my wife is, she can’t make me feel powerful.
That’s my job.
For years I’ve tried to outsource that feeling…asking her to reflect back something I hadn’t owned in myself.
And when she didn’t, I blamed her.
That’s dependence.
Now I’m learning to generate that power internally, so I don’t need to pull it from her.
And creating some sexual polarity in the process.