are you trans like @npub1a2cw...w83a ? #asknostr

Should I put these 2 also in as DM Inbox relays?

No. "Good options are: inbox.nostr.wine (paid) - auth.nostr1.com (free) - you.nostr1.com (personal relays - paid)"

Thanks, that's what Amethyst suggests as well. Someone should post screenshots of which relays to put where as a free user who wants to be reachable by other free users while avoiding at least some of the spam. Especially the Gaza spammer.

The Gaza spammer is a bot farm. They are new npubs. Mute one and another pops up. You can use Amethyst to mute the name, or if it changes for you, the image name.

Does this config make sense for a nobody like me?

I've thought the same thing. Before you got here, @Ava had a different profile pic and you could tell by his hands that he wasn't female. I've asked the question before and got muted.