GM! Another morning spotting purple flowers #flowerstr

I didn’t like social media apps cause I felt like exposing myself. But here I feel so free to share cause I have no real face or name. Anonymity gives a lot of freedom and I’m loving it!

Yesterday it was a beautiful day, I felt so loved. Mr Crumb’s family invited me for lunch and decorated the table with purple flowers cause they know I like them 🫶 Even the cheese and the salad had purple flowers 🧀🪻🥬🪻 #flowerstr

Birthday breakfast 🎂 One candle cause it is my first birthday on nostr. Well… also because all the candles for my age wouldn’t fit in the cake 👵🏻

When I was young I envied people who had lots of friends… I had friends at school, but not so many. But, time has taught me that it was more important to keep the good ones rather than worrying for not having more friends. Quality over quantity. A decade after, some of those people I envied are way lonelier than me. I know, it’s not a competition. Their loneliness doesn’t make me feel good, but it reminds me to be grateful for the friends I have. I hope I can keep them for decades more. #thanks

Good Morning Nostr! Hope you have a great day 🤗 #gm

GM Nostr! Another day spotting purple flowers 🪻🪻🪻 #flowerstr

Friday night reminder … sometimes it’s easier to stay at home, but if you are still hoping to find love… get out! #itsfriday (Old me needed other people to remind me this and I am grateful they did cause I met Mr Crumb)

Lazy “lunch” for today 🤭 I know I’ll be judged… but my fridge is empty and really don’t want to go to the supermarket today #myfridgeisemptysowhat

GM! 🪻☀️ #flowerstr

Once you discover no rice sushi, there is no turning back

This week alone, two cousins have called me asking for advice. Is this a sign that I’m finally becoming wiser? 👵🏻☎️ I’d like to think so. I am enjoying the life coach role.

Pro tips that nobody asked on how to give flowers to your girl without messing up (coming from a biased nostr girl who loves flowers): 1. Be sure she wants to receive them. For some reason (that I don’t understand yet, but have seen it in many friends) some girls get scared when they receive flowers “too early”. My hypothesis is that they interpret them as “I love you”. Just keep that in mind if you don’t mean that. 2. Don’t use them as an apology. You’ll turn flowers into a bittersweet sign. You want to make her happy every time she receives them, don’t transform them in the reminder of sad moments… cause she probably remembers the last time you gave flowers to her and you don’t want to remind her your last fight. 3. It has to be unexpected. Don’t make her expect flowers on her birthday. Then you’ll hate flowers cause they’ll feel an expensive obligation. Send them to her a random day, and not too frequently, scarcity makes them more special. If you want to send her on a special date it’s ok, but don’t be consistent, so that it is a surprise too. Disclaimer: do buy her a birthday present please, just not flowers every time. 4. Which flower doesn’t really matter, unless you know she hates some kinds, it is alergic to them or she is too picky. The size of the bouquet is not relevant either. The important thing is the message: he bought this beautiful, useless thing for me, which he doesn’t understand why I like them, but just because he wanted me to smile today. Any other doubts? Any complaints? Have you tried these things and think it’s actually bad advice? Would love to know other girls opinions too. #flowerstr #nobodyasked