Are you nice? #asknostr
I am not.
But I am kind to those who need it.
Respect begets respect and I don't expect people to give it willy‑nilly.
It must be earned.
Don't confuse kindness with being nice.
Being nice to me is being a pushover, a goody‑two‑shoes and a 'yes person', and that shows unhealthy boundaries.
Kindness is showing compassion to people, understanding their side without being a pushover.
You stand up for yourself and draw your boundaries whilst still showing kindness.
Kindness is not a weakness; it is a skill that takes a lot of discipline and control to master. ☺️🫂
So, are you nice?
It takes a lot of mental strength to stand up to the trolls or even see past the negative comments.
I commend those who have the courage to step in the ring and get publicly scrutinised — that takes mental robustness.
Hence, people break down easily and publicly, especially public figures.
Whilst you can argue they chose that career, it does not deny the fact that it is mentally straining.
Therefore, next time you throw your stone, ask yourself: would you survive a minute if put in the same environment and pressure as them?
Perhaps you can share some empathy and humanise the experience rather than be quick to judge whilst hiding behind your screen or keyboard.
Be kind out there and do not lose your humanity! 🫂
#asknostr
what is your greatest fear before clocking out in this world?
Mine are 2 things:
1. Unfulfilled potential
2. Losing myself in the process
yours? keen to hear it.💪
I find it ironic when people are so keen to fight for freedom and yet quick to shut down critique.
It seems their perception is like this:
"You either agree with us or you are out"!
No more room for discussion or open dialogue.
Mentality like this breeds only resentment and echo chambers.
Growth comes in many shape and form; to my readers, this in itself is one of them — a test of your patience and your discernment to pick your battles!
One thing: if people only want to see the colour "red", it is a waste of time to continue to convince them to see other colours! ☺️
Take care — you beautiful soul! 🫂
