you can NEVER change anyone. if you think so then you are falling for the potential of that person and not their reality. if someone tells you: "you changed me". what they mean "you inspired me to change". you can NEVER take action and show up for them every day but them alone. so, next time you see someone's potential, remind yourself of the above before committing to anything to save you from any disappointment. you can only advice and encourage people if they ask for it. but you cannot change them FOR YOU. take care, you — beautiful soul 🫂☺️ #nostr #plebchain

If you think you are irreplaceable, you may want to reflect on that. Whilst I was going through my health scare, the world moved. Whist I was screaming in pain, the world didn't notice. My point? If you are too scared to get your health check bcoz of work or the project your working on will be delayed then think again. If you are too worried to take a time off to spend time a well deserved rest or spend time with your family, think again. If you are too guilty to keep your options open, check the market for career opportunities bcoz you are the key player in your team or you are one of the key decision makers, reflect on that. Nobody is irreplaceable. The time you miss thinking of what-ifs or skip meetings or god forbid take a time for yourself — can never be returned or worse the regrets will haunt you for the rest of your life. Whilst you are still debating inside you, the time is already ticking. You are already missing the precious time that you could have spent with your family or yourself. Don't let it be too late. Make the time to do the things you always want or plan to do. Don't let life or circumstance decide for you. 🙏 Control the controllable and be proactive about it. 🫂 good morning my dear reader ☺️ #plebchain #grownostr #gm #nostr

UPDATE to #nostr tribe: I am recovering nicely. No prescriptions. No pain killers. I am nearly one month doing my own remedy and I can finally sleep soundly. I can stand on my own. I can go to the loo with no assistance. I can walk for over a mile. I can do little chores in the house. Yes, these mundane things we take for granted were the things I couldn't do for nearly a month with sleepless nights. Thank you for your prayers 🙏 and well wishes. 🫂 Here's some photo to say "hello you — beautiful soul" ☺️ View quoted note →

I'd say comparing yourself to others is the quickest way to be depressed and miserable. We walk different path, have different aspirations and time/chapters in our life. Does this mean you do not look up on others to inspire yourself? Of course you do. But keep it as "inspiration" and NOT as the "target". Do you see people who are less fortunate than you? Of course, BUT not to feel some "grandiosity" rather to feel "grateful" for what you have. And these views can easily get misconstrued as "comparing to other people". Instead, I compare myself to my younger "self". I am wiser than last year, even wiser than myself 6 yrs ago. 🫂🙏 View quoted note →

oh this is sooooo gooood... I nearly started a debate with my partner's friend bout this. he said, got nothing to hide. so I said, give me your bank then? then he replied, got no money. Then I say, you are being selfish, you may thought you ARE THE ONLY target — what about the people in your contact, your parents. YOU may be the entry point! View quoted note →

If I believed what they said, they would start cutting my organs! we dine like there is no tomorrow. we enjoy all our guilty pleasure food. why not? we only live once. we educate ourselves about tech, finance, geopolitics, climate change, marketing, etc. but we hardly educate ourselves about our health. we learn them from school, we read them from the internet. but there are too many conflicting research. you go vegan. you go carnivore, omnivore, vegetarian, etc. what food causes insulin spike and why? what food causes diabetic and why? Is cholesterol really bad? are the food suggested by the gov't really healthy and why? etc.. No surprise we are at the mercy of the conventional medicines. Because they have our best interests at heart right? 😏 Because they want you to be out of your discomfort even if it means... putting you on drugs for the rest of your life.😒 introducing you to long term illness as long as the immediate discomfort is resolved.😏 don't worry about the long-term side effects, it may or may not happen so pray for your luck. 🫣 Over the last four weeks, I have never put all my stregth to: 1. educate my limited knowledge about my health, 2. the danger of blind compliance from the prescription drugs the doctors issue to you — all in the name to "cure you" and 3. never believe prognosis as face value — do your own due diligince. I learned the latter the hard way. If I believed what they said, they would start cutting my organs! That is how f*cked up it was! watch this space for part 2! ❤️🫂 good morning my dear readers...🌤️ #plebchain #grownostr #nostr

💯 spot on couldn't say it better View quoted note →

Conventional medicines told me to take medications! 4 days later following conventional medicines. And I did end up worse than I started! So I took it upon myself to research the medicines they prescribed to me! My jaw dropped! They prescribed to address the symptoms and not the root cause. The worse part?... The long term effects of taking those pills would mean I will be worse off and DEPENDENT on the drug! I refused..! So now, I stop the medications. I can feel myself again! Conventional medicines do help for emergency. But I refused to put myself in the hands of people who themselves are gambling with my body. I have no qualms with the modern medicines. It saves lives. But to BLINDLY follow what they say because of fear mongering, I refused! Esp if there is an incentives to keep the populace ill! I'd rather make my own choices! So I am using natural remedies — from nature! good morning #nostr tribe 🫂☺️ #plebchain #grownostr View quoted note →

Outside sounds like people are having a party. You can hear the bell ringing and chatter from people. Happy Easter 🥚🐣 🫂 #plebchain #gm #grownostr