#nostr tribe please welcome him. He is new here and managed to convert him to join us! Send your hello and he is happy to learn bout #btc and #zaps #introductions 🫂☺️👌 View quoted note →

🚨 Are both arguments the same? 1. Could you tell that being in a relationship is horrible if you have not been in one? 2. Do you need to try dangerous drugs in order to know that they are dangerous? Statement 2 has tangible, measurable effects on your body. Statement 1 is about emotions. You cannot measure one's emotions. You can obviously try statement 2 and be prepared for the consequences: life or death. Statement 1, however, is teaching you emotional resilience. You can only learn emotional resilience through experience, by feeling it and understanding the pleasant and unpleasant effects on your body. You can read all you want about betrayal, hate, anger, love, joy, empathy and compassion. But you can never truly understand them if you have not felt them. To say you dislike relationships or does not want to find meaningful connections because your mates, your parents or what you've seen on social media show the devastating effects of relationships, then you will also miss out on the beautiful experiences of being loved, being seen for who you are (not for what you may become), of being treasured, being respected and valued despite your imperfections. Just because your exposure to relationships is terrible, it does not mean all relationships are terrible. Yes, your first love may be awful. You may be rejected, but know this: when you learn to know yourself, you will find the right partner for you, someone you are willing to scorch the earth to spend your time with. The best treatment for horrible experiences is to replace them with beautiful new experiences. You cannot take it on the sideline; you cannot sit this one out — this requires practical application. Do not fear being hurt because resilience can only be found through a few scratches and not from a pristine, unscathed heart. Don't fret; your heart is very resilient. Do not underestimate it. So, be bold and don't fear finding meaningful connections. He or she is out there waiting to be found. As you greet the weekend I hope this note will motivate you to put yourself out there and start finding meaningful connections. Good night my dear readers 🫂☺️🌌 #asknostr #gn #nostr #plebchain #grownostr

I deactivated LinkedIn for over a year now and this video sums it up! 👇 #nostr #plebchain #grownostr

It is tough to forgive yourself. Esp when you expect so much from yourself. But here is the trick that help me along the way in forgiving myself: "Would you treat and speak to your bestfriend the way you speak and treat yourself?" Be kind to your greatest ally — yourself 🫂🙏 #nostr #plebchain #grownostr View quoted note →

this is interesting. first word came to mind is: SURRENDER ☺️