When a relationship ends, even if it was mostly due to the actions of one party, I think the other party should do a 'post-mortem,' as they may have contributed to the demise, even if it was in a smaller way.
Regardless of who was to blame, I think everyone needs to do some introspection to prevent baggage from carrying over to the next relationship - unless you want to punish the next guy for the actions of those who came before him!
Stacy
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A late bloomer in life ! Former HR worker, finding it hard to re-enter the workforce (ageism exists!). Making ends meet by teaching meditation and dog training. Also decided to pursue my passion (writing). I have a master's in making my tragedies seem funny. Die-hard #PhiladelphiaEagles fan love #yoga, dancing, Columbo reruns, #jazz, and #blues. Classic #Virgo, and can overthink just about everything.
For those interested in viewing all of the live cams for the #katmai bears, here is the link via Explore.org
Careful, you'll be addicted to watching these bears! Before you know it, you'll have them open on a separate browser for hours at a time!


Bear Cam - live from Brooks Falls in Katmai National Park | Explore.org
Watch LIVE as hundreds of Alaskan Brown Bears descend on a mile-long stretch of the Brooks River to feast on the largest Sockeye Salmon run in the ...
#katmai bears
The fish are jumpin'!
And the early bear gets the salmon.


Oh, good. More rain is in the forecast for SE PA today. Because we still have a few roads In Central Bucks that aren't washed out yet- can't have that! ๐
The sarcasm is real, and so is the #ClimateEmergency
Sometimes, you move on without the apology you deserve. Sometimes, it's without respect. Regardless, you need to ask yourself if the person was worth it. If you were lacking both after a break-up, it was a relationship that was never whole in the first place.
Broken hearts mend. Broken self-respect takes a lot longer to get back. โค๏ธ
Tried muting the announcers at #wimbledon but the CC comes on, and I can't get it off, so I"m forced to either listen to the fawning over Djokovic or reading it!
There are two situations I cannot watch at Brooks Falls, although it is just a part of life for the bears. First, I can't watch the fights. Second, I cannot watch when a mother emancipates her cubs. It's nature, and I know this, but those are two situations that make me close the browser. My empathy gets in the way.
#katmai bears
Watching #wimbledon with Dad as we wait for his doc to come by. Dad suddenly remembered how I used to play tennis with my best friend at the dead end of our street when I was six. Even I'd forgotten about that.
A political riptide is pulling us back to the terrifying depths of misogyny and racism. Like any riptide, swimming away from it before heading back to shore is the way out. We need to stop the backward momentum before moving forward again, and we need to start now. The GOP took 50 years to set us back. If that bunch of idiots can do it, smart people like us can UNDO it with a combination of intelligence AND a whole lotta South Philly-style political street fighting.
At least, that's my opinion
Can anyone recommend a decently priced webcam that I can use for my virtual sessions/YouTube videos?
I'm not sure how it is elsewhere, but I'm noticing a troublesome trend that reminds me of 2015. Of the people I regularly talk to, those who said Trump couldn't possibly win in 2016 are saying the same about 2024. Same attitude, only now with "But he's being indicted' as the reason. It's one thing for the GOP to go all in for the man, but I hope the rest of us don't get lazy & assume he can't win because of the indictments. I hope the trend is just where I live and not indicative of a wider one
I seem to be in an Ella kinda mood today. Listening to;
Ella Fitzgerald - Summertime
#music
I need that nuclear, high-powered, wake the dead kinda coffee #today Doesn't matter what form it comes in. โ


You know what? Call me crazy, but coming up to a woman while she's in the produce section of Whole Foods and saying, "You're slammin', wanna go out and hoist a few?" while you ogle her like a piece of meat is not the best course of action. And the guy had the nerve to act offended when I stared at him and said, 'Nope.'
I'm not asking for roses, a tux, and a serenade, but respect goes a long way. That ain't it, buddy. Jeezaloo. ๐
That feeling you get when someone texts you something they dig about you - out of the blue, unprompted. Totally my kryptonite.


SWFL Eagle Cam
Here's a peek at the female who has been hanging around with M15 for a while now. She's on the left. Could she be the next mate for him? We won't know until nesting season begins in the Fall. #birds #nature


I don't encounter this much, at least not where I live. Today, I spoke with a woman with a son in Scientology. What she told me about that cult (which is exactly what it is) was horrifying. It seems he gave them almost all his life savings and is now cutting off friends and family. I've heard about Scientology off and on through the years but never spoke to anyone connected to someone in that cult. It truly is horrifying.
Listening to:
Madonna - Justify My Love (Official Video)
SWFL Eagle Cam
There's E22. Haven't caught him on camera for a few days. At this stage, he's been at the nest a bit longer than most. The record holder is E15, who stayed for six months. Harriet and M15 built a second nest that year - either for him or for them! It's the nest that was eventually taken over by the owls.


I think one of the seniors I drove to the polls yesterday is trying to kill me.
She made me a spicy vegetarian dish. She said, "It's just a little spicy."
I took three bites ten minutes ago, and I'm still crying. My throat is scorched, and I have fire coming out of my mouth like a dragon from Game of Thrones.
I think I"m gonna die. If you never hear from me again, it's been real.๐ฅ