Imagine listening to your feelings for guidance about what you want to do instead of the rational mind. It's like asking your 5 year old son guidance.
Roman Simon
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Thinker. Explorer. Speaker. ₿usinessman. Sharing deepest insights from my personal experience.
TIME DILATION AND SPEED OF LIGHT
Let's imagine a universe as a supercomputer where everything is created by its processor, and all interactions are calculated by it at the its fixed processing speed.
Every single cycle, the processor computes the exact state of every particle in the entire universe — where it is located and how its state evolves next. All particles are updated at precisely the same moment. There is one universal timeline at the deepest level.
Consider a stationary particle first. The processor repeatedly calculates its state in the same position cycle after cycle. Because the position stays identical while the processor keeps running these calculations, the repeated evaluations at one spot create the appearance of random motion or jiggling in all directions. This jiggling is what we observe as vibration, random fluctuations, or internal change. This repeated same-position processing is what we perceive as the particle's internal clock ticking, as aging, as decay processes, or as quantum uncertainty.
When two or more particles are in similar environments and remain relatively stationary, the processor performs roughly the same number of repeated same-position calculations for each of them. Their "internal clocks" therefore tick at matching rates, so they age in step with each other.
The processor's fixed calculation rate naturally defines a maximum speed: the fastest possible change in position is one full unit of distance per cycle. This maximum displacement rate is what corresponds to the speed of light.
Now consider a particle that begins to move. Instead of calculating the state repeatedly at the same position, the processor now calculates the state at different positions at some of the cycles, depending on the speed.
The faster the particle moves, the more cycles the processor must dedicate to these position changes. At lower speeds, some cycles can still be spent repeating calculations at nearly the same spot (allowing limited vibration/internal change). But as speed increases toward the maximum, fewer and fewer cycles remain available for aging.
At the absolute maximum speed (the speed of light), every single cycle is used to advance the position in one direction. There are zero cycles left to repeat calculations at any single spot. As a result, the vibration completely disappears. The particle becomes frozen in terms of internal evolution — it no longer ages, decays, or experiences any internal change. It simply travels forward at full speed, with all processing power devoted to movement.
Massless particles, like photons (light), behave this way naturally. They require no extra calculations for interactions with other fields or forces, so they can dedicate every cycle to position advancement and always travel exactly at the speed of light.
Particles with mass interact with their surroundings — gravity, electromagnetic forces, nuclear forces, and more. Each of these interactions requires additional calculations every cycle. The greater the mass, the more interaction calculations must be performed. As a consequence, massive particles have fewer cycles available to dedicate to position changes. They cannot reach the full maximum movement rate; they are throttled and always move slower than light.
This mechanism directly produces time dilation. When a particle travels close to the maximum speed, most or nearly all of its cycles go toward advancing position across different locations. The number of aging calculations drops dramatically or reaches zero. From the perspective of a stationary observer, the fast-moving particle's internal evolution appears to slow down or stop entirely. But the universal clock keeps ticking the same for everything — every particle's state is still calculated every cycle — but the fast particle's internal clock (aging) has been starved, making it seem frozen in time.
Real-world observations match this picture in striking ways. 

2 PATHS TO PEACE AND HAPPINESS
The first is convincing yourself that you are who you are and that it’s not your fault you are here living this life. It’s just luck, God, or an unfair world. But it’s okay to be yourself in whatever state you are in. You are a good person and can live your life the way you feel. Just be yourself.
The second is understanding that you are somewhere in the middle of your potential, and that a much more advanced version of you exists — one that lives a far more exciting life. To level up and embody that version, you need to embark on a journey of exploration and progress. There will be obstacles and hardships, but you will handle them, because you are brave. Greatness awaits you.
Which version of happiness will you choose?
IS LEARNING GOOD OR BAD?
There are two fundamentally different types of learning — constructive and destructive.
The first one is supported by pleasure. It feels easy, light, and entertaining. You watch videos, read posts, listen to podcasts, and your brain gets stimulated. It feels like learning, but it’s not. It’s mental masturbation. You are not building anything — you are just rubbing your brain in a comfortable way to get a small dose of pleasure. Like petting a cat. Nice, calming, pointless.
This type of “learning” never creates competence. It doesn’t change how you act, what you can do, or what results you get. It only makes you feel informed while keeping you weak and delusional. Over time, it trains you to avoid difficulty and crave stimulation. That is destructive learning.
The second type of learning is enforced by pain.
You need something in real life. A result. A skill. Power. Money. Control. So you go and try to get it — and immediately you hit resistance. You fail. You feel stupid. You feel frustrated. Nothing works. That pain forces you to think. To analyze. To adapt. To act differently.
You don’t learn because it’s fun — you learn because you must. Every mistake hurts. Every failure exposes your incompetence. And the more pain you feel, the harder your brain is forced to work. This pressure creates real understanding. Real skill. Real growth.
When you finally get it — when the thing that used to hurt no longer does — that’s learning. You didn’t consume information. You transformed yourself.
Pleasure-based learning weakens you. Pain-based learning builds you.
One feels good.
The other makes you effective.
— Warrior's Path
You don’t stop living your life when you become old. You become old when you stop living your life.
I know 35-year-old guys who are so tired that they don’t do anything. I know 75-year-old men who live their best lives and continue exploring the world and pushing the limits of what is possible.
It is not about age, but about mindset. You decide how old you actually are.
Mangan is 70. 

Most people are delusional because they don’t understand the concept of incentives.
Take the moon landings, for example. What was the goal of humans landing on the moon? Did they want to get something from there? Build a base or create something new? No. The only goal was to show the world that they were capable of doing it.
Could it have been done in a different way? Of course. Hollywood has existed for more than 50 years and has produced far more complex special effects. Why would they actually risk everything and land on the moon when they could achieve the same goal by staging it?
Analyze everything through incentives perspective and you will see a completely different world.
People who do big things are not stupid. Everything is driven by incentives. 

Do you know what the hottest sexual fantasy most women have is?
There is this weird new tendency online. Fake AI videos where women say whatever immature boys crave to hear. These videos attract millions of dorks. Reality will be so distorted in several years, the Great Reset will happen naturally 

Heated "discussions" on X are like swarms of angry dogs barking at each other. You can't go in and start communicating logically. The only reaction will be louder barking.
The most effective way of teaching children and helping them to grow is not distorting reality into a fake, safe, and comfortable environment so they feel good learning. It's exposing them to the harsh reality of life in a controllable way. Children need to fall and get hurt to mature. Your overcaring kindness is raising puppies.
Pure wisdom wrapped in joy 🔥🔥🔥
When you call her your partner, you imply that you are on the same level. That is the worst thing that you can do in relationships, as a man.
Most problems men have are caused by the fear of feeling emotions.
We don’t explore the world curiously because of the fear of the unknown.
We don’t communicate because of the fear of rejection and other emotions.
We don’t create and build businesses because of the fear of failure and embarrassment.
We don’t work on ourselves and level up because of a range of emotions we avoid.
Imagine a world where you could feel your emotions freely and then continue doing what you want. You would be unstoppable. 

A single organism can never achieve anything big alone.
Ants and bees unite into colonies, wolfs form packs, monkeys enroll into gangs, and people create communities.
You can't conquer the world alone. Learn communicating and influencing people.
The anger inside you won’t disappear on its own. You need to feel it, experience it, and release it. Once the charge is released, you achieve balance. This is true for all emotions.
When you put effort into upgrading yourself, it may seem like you’re wasting time and energy. But in reality, you’re making yourself more efficient, so everything you do in the future will be faster and require less energy. By investing effort now, you actually save much more time and energy later.
You are delusional because you talk and don't actually do anything. Go out and try whatever you are saying. I guarantee you there will be no delusions left.
If you are a smart, strong man capable of doing great things, yet you spend your life doing irrelevant and unimportant work, you are letting everyone and everything down. You are doing a disservice to the universe, to Earth, to society, to your community, and to your family. You were created for a reason. The potential and possibilities you were given have a purpose. And instead, you are just washing dishes? What a coward.