Every time something absolutely terrible and seemingly irreversible happened to me — every time I was devastated and thought there was no way out and I was done — I found a solution, resolved the situation, and became stronger, smarter, and more resilient. It’s not the end. As long as you are alive and can think, you can win. Never give up!

When you meet someone or face a situation and assume hostility, you will automatically start defending yourself. That pushes you into a combative state, the other side reacts defensively, and the interaction spirals into an unpredictable, chaotic outcome. This is an inefficient way to perceive reality. If instead you initially assume the other party is friendly, you stay calm, open, and non-threatening. Most people will mirror that state, and the interaction will unfold more smoothly and productively. If the other party truly is hostile — which is rare in modern life — you can switch to defense. But even then, there are usually more effective strategies than constant suspicion and preemptive aggression. Also, even if the other party is hostile, when they start interacting with you and see that you are calm and not defensive, it signals strength and confidence. It shows that you feel in control of the situation, that there is something behind this composure. This often discourages confrontation, because people tend to avoid challenging someone who appears stable, grounded, and unshaken.

There are so many incredibly smart, wise, and talented people here on X who share their wisdom and experience and write a lot of beneficial content, yet get no attention and no engagement. And that is simply how social media works. It is like making a snowball. You start it manually with your hands and roll it, roll it, roll it, putting energy into it. It may take a long time until, at some point, something changes and its own weight takes over. Then the snowball starts rolling by itself, becoming bigger and bigger and bigger. But you need to roll it in one direction. Keep rolling!

A normal person doesn’t know the difference between a smart idea and a meaningless random one. That is why they use shortcuts to decide which ideas to entertain — authority, popularity, and other people’s opinions and reactions. If someone is popular or widely accepted, people assume they share good, smart ideas. This is often not true in the real world, but this is how most people operate.

While there is an actual reality and objective truths governed by physics, there are no absolute personal or subjective truths. A person’s life is a journey, not a scientific study. We need to interact with the world to experience it, make our own decisions, and understand who we are, what we want, and what is true. All of this will evolve as we travel through life and gain new experiences. Don't make the mistake of adopting other people's truths and living your life their way. It will cause deep depression and lead to misery.

Our ancestors evolved in conditions of scarcity. Most of them never experienced variety or choice. When they had a chance to find someone and create a family, they did so — because that was how they survived and reproduced. That is why we are here today. Most men nowadays follow the same pattern. They build a family with the first woman they can, and that decision sets the direction of their entire life. Young men, who never had time to explore the world or understand who they are and what they want, start working hard to support their family and their spouse — who was simply the first available choice. After that, they have no time or energy left for their own growth. Everything is structured to keep them in a perpetual working state and to exploit their labor for the benefit of the system. And they see this as normal life — it is what it is — they believe. It does not have to be this way.

"But the masses like XYZ more!" "But women like XYZ more!" "But clients like XYZ more!" Why would I be obsessed about what others like? My life is my journey and I do whatever I like.

The topic you are not ready for: Women want to feel inferior with a man. Anything that makes them feel equal disgusts them to their core. If you respect, listen to, serve, take too much care, and pay too much attention, she will lose interest and drop you soon. Kissing for example. Women say they love it and want to be kissing all nights. That's a shittt test. She loves kissing and that's why you should tease her with it, not surrender and give her everything she wants. Women love chasing things and working for them. They hate when it comes easily. She doesn't want to be at your level, controlling you, getting what she wants, and kissing. She wants to be on her knees, below the man, listening to his commands and serving him. Don't fvkkkk this up. Servants get used and replaced easily. Only masculine men will win the game of life.

You feel safe and relaxed in your bed because nothing dangerous can happen. When you talk to new people, there's also nothing bad that can happen, but you are worried. This is how the mind perceives the world.

In the modern world it's not about what you say, it's about who is listening.

Reward without a risk makes you weak and submissive.

The safer and more comfortable your living conditions, the weaker you will get. Do you really want to become a little princess?

When you have the correct mindset, leveling up and achieving greatness is fun, not painful. DM for personal consultation. Let's set the winning mindset.

My wisdom and ideas I share don't come from reading or watching videos. They come from me swimming through deep shittt. I have been through sooo much shiittt in my life, I am surprised I'm still alive. And this started happening after I conquered fear.

The only way to reach your maximum potential and achieve greatness is when the universe forces you to. And that can only happen if you always try to bite off more than you can chew.

Fail better.

The problem is the fear. If you are afraid, you are operating from a weak feminine submissive frame. You can't lead, create, dominate, conquer, and be at your maximum potential while you are in this frame. Stop. Think. Analyze. You need to understand why are you afraid and pushed into submission. When you do this, you can flip into a strong masculine frame. This is where you can shine and win anything. The key is to understand this.

You don't become great and achieve success by safely serving someone. You become great by curiously exploring the world and bravely taking risks.

Women can't be partners to men. If you don't understand this, you can try and see it for yourself.

There's this common mediocre state most people are living in. They don't understand most things, are incompetent, full of beliefs and delusions, and very fearful. A common man views the world only from his point of view. So, if he's delusional and incompetent, that should be the default "normal" state. Anything above will elicit resentful hate. Anything below — contempt and neglect. This is why extremely intelligent and competent people like Elon Musk who want to be accepted and loved by the masses, say things like "I know that I don't know", "I am very lucky", or I am often wrong". They pretend to be normal, like a mediocre average Joe.