To be calm, you need to be exhausted by extreme chaos in a variety of situations multiple times. Calmness signals experience and resilience.
There comes a moment when you are so exhausted that anything loses its meaning. Life itself becomes unimportant.
I don't react to anything: explosions, shots, anger, aggression, elevation, speed, hunger, pain, anything. My body is used to such extreme conditions that I just experience whatever happens calmly.
Exposure is how you train yourself to be calm and non-reactive.

Humans are smart when they have a smart goal. People are very dumb when they pursue pleasure.

If you try to warn sheep about the farm and the slaughterhouse, they will attack you and try to ridicule.
If she feels happy, everything seems beautiful, even dirt under the feet.
If she feels miserable, everything seems ugly, even the most beautiful clouds.
In her mind, only whatever she feels is real, it can't be delusional. She constracts her worldview backward — rationalizin whatever happens to fit her emotions.
Some people were raised in families where people were fighting each other. They see the world that way now — someone always is trying to fight them. If nobody does it, they start the fighting.
While taking responsibility for things may be stressful, it allows you to control your life. It's an exchange like in a marketplace — you choose what you want and then pay the cost. Here, you just pay with stress.
Informed minority will always outperform ignorant majority. The only way out of the slave farm is intelligence and understanding.
In video games you have objective which you finish and receive fake reeards, while the creators of the game receive real money.
Why not finish real objectives in real life and receive real rewards instead?
There is nothing heroic in fighting wars for any reason. It actually shows your ignorance. You are not defending your family, nation, or country. You are just making money for the banksters.
As long as wars are profitable, they will continue. Because the only group that loses in wars is ignorant masses that actually fight and die. Everyone else involved wins. Basically, wars transfer human lives' capital into businessmen, banksters, and politicians' pockets.
The alpha male concept is a psyop.
There are no alpha males or beta males. There are only mature men and immature boys.
A free, mature man has explored the world, experienced reality, and therefore is intelligent and competent. He understands how the world works and therefore interacts with it effectively. Where it is effective, mature men dominate and lead. Where other behavior is required, they can follow and even submit.
The idea that the alpha male is someone who dominates everyone all the time is comedic.
An immature boy is someone who has not experienced the world and has not matured yet. Everyone starts here, even the most "alpha males" ever. And everyone can curiously explore the world, learn, and mature.
The idea that some people are born betas is hilarious and laughable. There are people who are scared and who have no will or circumstances to push them into the unknown, so maturation doesn't happen. Some remain immature their entire lives.
Ignorant all the stupid cliches and focus on your growth. You, as a man, have a lot of exciting work to do.

The conclusion you are drawing is probably wrong. Any conclusion, in any area.
Because the human mind strives to preserve energy and therefore seeks shortcuts. The world is much more complicated than we understand.
There are certainly more layers than you can imagine, and there's certainly something you don't even know exists that led to the outcome you base your conclusions on.
This is how it works:
You are positive and have great mood. Someone weak gets affected by chaos negatively. They interact with you and try to infect you with the chaos.
If you are weak, you get affected and the virus spreads.
If you are strong, you don't get affected negatively, and even influence their behavior toward positive calm state.
The stronger frame wins. How strong is your frame?
People are saying dumb things and appreciate others to build connections
Feminism is about destroying masculinity and making the masses more delusional and obedient.
Normal people are normal. They are mediocre. Everything they believe in, all their habits, desires, thoughts, and fears — everything is tuned in a way that produces the mediocrity they are living in.
If you plan to cooperate with people to build something exceptional, you will need to change their behavior heavily. That is a very hard task.
You could also try to find already exceptional people, which is an even harder thing to do in the modern, delusional, comfortable world. And most exceptional people are already busy doing great things somewhere else and getting paid insane salaries.
Another option is to build processes that don't require exceptionality from people — a semi-automated workflow that guides people and uses only their available capabilities.
Anyway, when you try to build something exceptional, collaborating with people is very hard.
Women will always rationalize whatever they feel and have done. This is why "women are always right" — it removes the responsibility part from their lives.
The less you are affected by anything and the less reactive you are, the more women will respect you, and men too.
Most people don't know how to appreciate things or how to show gratitude. It doesn't mean they don't feel it.