I made a comment last night about feeling sad about the changes the seemingly updated Amethyst interface caused, and today my app just keeps crashing. Eh, is it mad at me??? 😳

Hubby's post is blowing up 🥳 View quoted note →

I'm not sure if I just have access to a different feed since a new update of Amethyst, or the morning crew is way more active but not as relational. 🤔

When my husband and I got married, I paid for everything for the first 6 months while we lived in Sweden. Then we moved to America, and my husband paid for everything. We've lived here for 3 years now. 😎 Thanks to Nostr and selling some of our books here, I have started to add to our household economy again. 😊 I only got my greencard late last year so I wasn't allowed to earn money before that. 😅🤣

Saw myself in profile in a mirror. I thought I'd end at a certain point... but my belly kept going! Clearly getting closer to time time of birth! Less than 4 weeks until I think he'll come out! 😬🤗🥳

Last night we came home to empty batteries. Clouds make a huge difference for solar power! Hopefully we'll have power tonight when we get home, cause I'm hungry and I wanna make pasta for dinner!

I keep looking at babies lately and pausing to tell myself, "I'm having one of those in a few weeks!" 🤯🤗 It's still a bit surreal, but also, it's coming up fast!

Checking bitchat, I feel a bit like I'm in some 90s or early 2000s hacker group on the dark web. Not really what I've ever considered my scene before 🤣🤣🤣

Did someone just send a fat zap? Cause I just saw really bright lighting outside 😎🤣

"Real men take the risk," @LeviJohnson.net They ask out women explicitly, rather than hinting and letting the women take over. .... Chats I have with my husband 😎 Also, he was the first man to use the word "date" with me. It showed me quickly that he was way more intentional and mature than the men who simply chatted with me some.

Kids play house, adults live it out. Being boyfriend/girlfriend and living together is like playing house as adults, marriage is the real deal and totally worth it! I never did the living together part, but I dated someone long distance for years. After that, I was so burnt out on being a girlfriend that when my now husband mentioned that "if things are still going well after the 3rd official date, I'll ask you to be my girlfriend", I had mixed emotions. One, I still needed to get to know him a bit more, but also, I didn't want to just be a girlfriend. However, we talked almost everyday between that point and the 3rd date, so by the end of the chat we had before the official 3rd date he asked if I still wanted him to wait until the 3rd date, or if he could ask me right then. To which I responded, "you can ask me now. 😇" It turned out I was only a girlfriend for 6 days, before he asked, "Can I just call you my fiance?" To which I said yes! From first date to wedding day was 68 days, and we knew each other better than some couples who have dated and maybe even lived together for 2-3 years! This is part of why I wrote our book, "How to prepare yourself for marriage", because I wanted to share that intentionality in relationships is actually a good thing, and frankly better than the Hollywood way of letting emotions run the show. Emotions need to be there too, but they're a consequence, not the driver. So many people, myself included, waste years on someone who's never actually going to commit. I was so done playing house, I wanted the real deal, and I went after it. I took a course called "The Dating Discovery", and for 10 weeks we had video calls every Friday. The 11th Friday was my first date with my husband! If you know who you are and what you want out of life, it's way easier to know what kind of person you might want to be with, and you'll be able to sort your way to them very quickly. We went into detail about these topics, but I also made sure to add some of the tools and habits I learned from my husband after we got married, because knowing them in advance makes relating to each other so much smoother from the beginning! I want to help change the world for the better. I want to contribute what I have learned. I want more people to understand what marriage really is and why it's totally worth it! So, if you or someone you know is single and wanting to be married, i highly recommend getting our book, not because I wrote it, but because I genuinely think it has valuable insights that will seriously help! This book is not filled with stereotypes and cliches, but goes more real and deeper! We sell a pdf for 10 000 sats through Nostr DMs, and Kindle, Audible, paperback, and hardback through FikaTimeBooks.com

Wow, I've made a 1250 day streak in Duolingo 🤯🥳🥳🥳😎 I know a few words in Korean now, but not as many as you might think for such a log streak 😅🤣

As we were leaving Starbucks today, hubby started chatting with a couple behind us and the lady found out we're expecting and said she'd love to get us something! She liked buying baby stuff I think she said. Well, if it's American, we'll take it! Feeling surprised and grateful! ☺️

Meeting someone for dinner in about an hour and a half, but I'm hungry now 😔

Overhearing some ladies behind me at Starbucks talking about relationships, I'm very tempted to turn around and suggest they check out our latest book, "How to prepare yourself for marriage", cause they're trying to figure things out, and I think our book could be really helpful! 😎 If anyone here is interested, we sell it for 10 000 sats through DMs or for fiat through FikaTimeBooks.com

In one if my dreams last night, I saw a field of glass yars. When I was waking up, I thought they must come from someone who is obsessed with @Oshi (推し) 's hodlbutter 🤣 like, they'd already managed to eat 3-500 yars of it! The littering is uncool, but I do hope Oshi has such success!

I had an online baby shower for my Swedish friends and family yesterday. We played one game. I game them a letter and started a 1 minute timer while they thought of as many names on that letter as they could, and then the one with the most unique names after tallying everyone's results won. It was so fun! There were only 4 participants at that point. The last one who had 11 names in the 2nd round ended up with 1 unique name! So, my mom who only thought of 6 names beat her with 3 unique names! 🤣