How to keep a #man happy #5: I cannot emphasise enough, that men WILL need to be #reminded. About what I hear you ask? Everything! #Anniversaries; #birthdays; taking out the trash; picking up his underwear... Its not that we don't want to do it, its just that our #priorities are different. It may seem like we're direction less when you look at it through your eyes, and you have every right to want us to remember #important dates and simple tasks, but men in general are #task oriented. When we're working on something, to us, everything else is a #distraction. We WANT to #celebrate with you, of course we do, just give us a #reminder and multiple #warnings ahead of time, and we'll be there.

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How to keep a #man happy #4: When he tells you his #feelings, really #listen and #understand. It has taken a lot of courage for him to express his feelings openly. When dealing with his friends, feelings are usually not shared, and it becomes second nature. He will #struggle with feeling #vulnerable, it is not a familiar feeling to him. Try not to interrupt him, and let him actually get the words out. Usually, he will be looking for a #solution to an issue that has been bothering him, so the best response is try and help solve the problem, even if its something that cannot be solved. Ask questions about it, and again, quietly listen closely. At least occasionally look him in the eye, so he knows you're engaged and he has your undivided attention.

How to keep a #man happy #3: Don't seriously #disrespect him. #Respect is the currency that #male #relationships are based on. He craves you respect, as much as he #craves the respect of his #peers. When you directly disrespect him in public, he's not only #shamed personally, but it makes it look like his judgement of his choice in partner is also lacking. Don't confuse disrespect with #contradiction. Correcting him on #facts is not disrespect. #Belittling him in front of friends or family, most definitely is.